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First blog entry EVER!

September 3, 2009 by Bethany Sy

Well, I went from being notorious for my compulsively nomadic moving from state-to-state nonsense, to now being a new wife AND new homeowner of a beautiful house in the country, dead center in the ‘middle of nowhere Iowa.’ (aparently our address isn’t can’t even be found via GPS). Our lovely home was built in 1900 and is set on 5 grassy acres with plenty of mature shade trees. To complete the picture (and because we are without children) we’ve acquired a small, and very loving/hyper baby dog. More specifically, an 8 week old Chocolate Lab named Reuben SyWassink.
We’ve been on ‘the farm’ (as we like to call it) now for 6 days, and it’s quite a lifestyle!! The first night, after spending a couple hours unpacking, we sat on our VERY OWN front porch and watched the sun set. It was such a surreal moment… one I may never forget… of realizing how far God has brought me, and how generous he’s been to me. I for one, am in my dream home, married to my dream man (who is far from perfect i might add), and tomorrow am starting a new job, which may very well be the perfect job! At least the schedule anyways… no more 12 hour shifts, or working weekends. Just Monday through Friday, off at 2! Which still gives me plenty of time to come home and be wifish. Wifish IS an actual word by the way. Wifish: adj. (Wife-ish) Definition: The act of being a good wife to one’s loving husband, including but not limited to: laundry, meal planning/preparation, house cleaning, having sex, etc. And we all know people that are more wifish than others. They are super sweet, with great skin, and always finding cool things on clearance. Their hair is flat-ironed (even if it’s just to make a trip to the post office). They never slouch, and always have fresh cookies on the counter when their husbands get home from work. AND, I’m not positive, but I think they probably have sexy underwear on pretty much all the time. Most days I feel like the opposite of wifishness, but whatever. You can only do so much.
Back to the house… on day 2, we woke up to a crop duster flying back and forth over our house (beings that we are surrounded by corn and bean fields). Super excitedly, we jumped out of bed and went out in our pajamas with a cup of coffee, and again, sat on OUR front porch and appreciated the beauty that is a crop duster. There is a chance that in the near future, such things will no longer catch our fancy, and instead be a bit of a nuisance so early in the morning on a Sunday. But for now, we fully appreciate all the beautiful and bizzare things that come with country life, as well as being new homeowners (and newlyweds for that matter). A brand new chapter in our lives is starting, and if I were writing the book, I would call it “The Life of a Country Girl.”

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About Bethany Sy

Nick and Bethany Sy are the creative free-spirits behind DIY/Lifestyle blog, Reality Daydream. They recently purchased a historic mansion and have been documenting the ups and downs of renovation and making this home their own... all while sharing tips and tutorials along the way! When they found themselves in the trenches of infertility, they started a journey that would prove to be their most important DIY project ever, and have 3 beautiful girls to show for it. <3

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    Maite - vitoma says

    April 27, 2013 at 7:10 pm

    Magnífico blog.
    Saludos.

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    Debbie Borthwick says

    March 25, 2013 at 11:43 pm

    For a first-ever-blog entry, you did a fantastic job! Way better than mine, I would be ashamed to link back to my first post. lol
    Debbie 🙂

    Reply
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    Anonymous says

    September 11, 2009 at 5:17 pm

    As a newlywed myself (as well as the annoyed owner of perpetually puffy hair), I would like to point out that though I flat iron my hair regularly, I haven’t worn sexy underwear since the honeymoon. And I most certainly do not sit up straight. Oh…and my husband cooks way better than I do. In fact, I’m pretty sure I married him for his lasagna and chicken enchiladas.

    Your house and your life sounds amazing big Jill-I’m soooo happy for you!!!

    Little D 🙂

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    meganblair says

    September 4, 2009 at 1:49 am

    1. It sounds like you may have someone particular in mind when you speak of going to the post office with flat-ironed hair.
    2. If the definition of wifish includes flat ironed hair and not slouching (among several similar items), I’m officially screwed.

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    Regan says

    September 3, 2009 at 10:53 pm

    Super excited you have a blog!! I’ll miss ya in Ames, IA but am very happy for you 🙂

    Reply

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